
The Relationship Anarchy Smorgasbord
The Relationship Anarchy smorgasbord is like a buffet of relational styles, commitments, and expectations. It has no definable rules other than what is agreed on by consenting parties. Relationships within this structure are fluid, and therefore have no solid differentiation between sexual, romantic, or platonic relationships.
Emotional Intimacy
Sharing Vulnerability
Emotional Support
Confidante
Words of Affection
Physical Intimacy
Cuddling
Kissing
Hand-Holding
Dancing
Massaging
Sexual Intimacy
Sexual Acts
Intercourse
Sexual talk
Kissing
Fondling
Companionship
Playfulness
Shared activity/interests
Friendship
Intellectual/
Philosophical Discussion
Long-term partnership
Having shared goals for
the future,
Commitment, Chosen family,
Embracing change in each other
Caregiving
Receiving care
Giving care
Emergency Contact

Co-caregiving
Elderly, sick or disabled
adults
Children
Plants
Animals
Entanglement
Cohabitation
Finances
Routines and chores
Legal commitment
Collaborative partnership
Teaching
Leading projects
Organizational activities
Artistic collaboration
Business partnership
Kink
Domination
Submission
Sadism
Masochism
Voluntary asymmetry
Sponsor-sponsee
Teacher-student
Mentor-guide
Guardian-ward
Social partnership
Public Displays of affection
Shared social circles
Presenting as a social unit

